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Scope:<\/strong> This page covers \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8 and its polite forms across work, school, clubs, and shared tasks. For the shortened \u304a\u75b2\u308c used in casual messages, use the separate texting guide<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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You heard this phrase in Japan.<\/strong> But what does otsukaresama<\/strong> really mean? The translation may look simple, but the real challenge is tone. \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8<\/strong> can mean \u201cgood work,\u201d \u201cthanks for your effort,\u201d \u201csee you after work,\u201d or simply a warm acknowledgment after someone has done something. It is common in workplaces, schools, clubs, and casual conversations, but the best wording depends on relationship, timing, and politeness level.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Why \u201cgood job\u201d is too narrow<\/h2>\n

A foreign learner hears otsukaresama<\/strong> and translates it only as \u201cgood job.\u201d Then they use it after almost anything, even when no effort or shared activity is involved.<\/p>\n

The Japanese listener may understand the intention, but the phrase can feel slightly out of place if there is no work, effort, task, practice, meeting, or shared context behind it.<\/p>\n

Safer:<\/strong> Use \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3059<\/strong> in many workplace or polite situations, and use \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8<\/strong> more casually with friends, classmates, coworkers, or people you are close to.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Keep reading before you use it in a chat, at school, or at work.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Choose the form before the translation<\/h2>\n

Otsukaresama<\/em>, written in Japanese as \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8<\/strong>, is one of the most useful everyday Japanese expressions. It acknowledges someone\u2019s effort, time, work, or participation. Depending on the situation, it can feel like \u201cgood work,\u201d \u201cthanks for your effort,\u201d \u201cyou must be tired,\u201d \u201cthanks for today,\u201d or even a friendly workplace greeting.<\/p>\n

The key is that \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8<\/strong> is not just a direct translation of one English phrase. It works best when there is some sense of effort, completion, shared work, practice, responsibility, or time spent together.<\/p>\n

Three moments that create shared-effort context<\/h2>\n

Here are natural conversation-style examples to help you understand how this kind of expression feels in real situations.<\/p>\n

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  • Leaving the office:<\/strong> A: \u304a\u5148\u306b\u5931\u793c\u3057\u307e\u3059\u3002 (Osaki ni shitsurei shimasu. \u2014 \u201cI\u2019ll head out first.\u201d) B: \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3059\u3002 (Otsukaresama desu. \u2014 \u201cThanks for your work today.\u201d) This is the standard exchange when someone leaves before others.<\/li>\n
  • When a meeting ends:<\/strong> \u7686\u3055\u3093\u3001\u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3057\u305f\u3002 (Minasan, otsukaresama deshita. \u2014 \u201cThank you all for your work today.\u201d) \u3067\u3057\u305f fits because the meeting is over.<\/li>\n
  • Opening a message to a coworker:<\/strong> \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3059\u3002\u660e\u65e5\u306e\u8cc7\u6599\u306e\u4ef6\u3067\u3059\u304c\u2026 (Otsukaresama desu. Ashita no shiry\u014d no ken desu ga\u2026 \u2014 \u201cHi, about tomorrow\u2019s materials\u2026\u201d) Common inside a company; do not open emails to clients this way.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    The shared-effort feeling behind \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8<\/h2>\n

    \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8<\/strong> literally relates to tiredness or effort, but in real life it is much warmer and broader than \u201cyou are tired.\u201d It is used to recognize that someone has done something, spent time, participated, helped, worked, practiced, or finished a task.<\/p>\n

    For learners, the safest first step is to understand the feeling behind the phrase rather than translating it word for word. The same expression can sound friendly, polite, professional, or too casual depending on the form you choose.<\/p>\n

    \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8 vs. \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3059 vs. \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3057\u305f<\/h2>\n

    These forms are closely related, but the tone changes.<\/p>\n

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    • \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8:<\/strong> Casual and friendly. Often used with friends, classmates, close coworkers, or people of equal or lower status.<\/li>\n
    • \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3059:<\/strong> Polite and very common in workplaces. Often used as a greeting, acknowledgment, or message opener\/closer among coworkers.<\/li>\n
    • \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3057\u305f:<\/strong> Polite and often used after something has finished, such as a meeting, event, shift, class, or project.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      After work, practice, or a shared task<\/h2>\n

      \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8<\/strong> sounds natural when there is effort, work, practice, travel, help, participation, or completion involved. It is often used after work, after a class, after club activities, after a meeting, after a performance, after a long day, or when someone has helped with something.<\/p>\n

      In casual chats, it can also be used warmly to recognize someone\u2019s hard day. In workplaces, the polite form \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3059<\/strong> is extremely common, but you should still be careful with customers or people outside your organization.<\/p>\n

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      When no effort or relationship is shared<\/h2>\n

      The phrase is useful, but it is not perfect for every situation. Be especially careful in these cases:<\/p>\n

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      • With customers or clients:<\/strong> \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3059<\/strong> is usually for people inside the same workplace or group. For customers, \u3042\u308a\u304c\u3068\u3046\u3054\u3056\u3044\u307e\u3059<\/strong> or \u3044\u3064\u3082\u3042\u308a\u304c\u3068\u3046\u3054\u3056\u3044\u307e\u3059<\/strong> is often safer.<\/li>\n
      • With very high-status people:<\/strong> Some workplaces use it normally with superiors, but in very formal settings, a more respectful phrase may be better.<\/li>\n
      • When no effort is involved:<\/strong> If nothing was done, completed, or shared, the phrase may feel random.<\/li>\n
      • When translating directly from English:<\/strong> Do not use it every time you want to say \u201cgood job.\u201d Japanese has different expressions depending on the situation.<\/li>\n
      • Do not swap in \u3054\u82e6\u52b4\u69d8:<\/strong> \u3054\u82e6\u52b4\u69d8(\u3067\u3059) is generally heard as something a superior says to someone below them. To a manager or senior, use \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3059.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        What changes between coworkers, managers, and clients<\/h2>\n

        In Japanese workplaces, \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3059<\/strong> is one of the most common phrases. Coworkers may use it when arriving, leaving, starting a message, ending a message, passing someone in the office, or acknowledging work. However, it is mainly an in-group workplace phrase.<\/p>\n

        For clients, customers, or people outside your company, it is usually safer to choose expressions such as \u3042\u308a\u304c\u3068\u3046\u3054\u3056\u3044\u307e\u3059<\/strong>, \u304a\u4e16\u8a71\u306b\u306a\u3063\u3066\u304a\u308a\u307e\u3059<\/strong>, or a specific thank-you depending on the situation.<\/p>\n

        Relationship-based examples<\/h2>\n
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        Situation:<\/strong> Two coworkers finish a long meeting.<\/p>\n

        Japanese:<\/strong> \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3057\u305f\u3002\u4eca\u65e5\u306e\u4f1a\u8b70\u3001\u9577\u304b\u3063\u305f\u3067\u3059\u306d\u3002<\/p>\n

        English:<\/strong> Good work today. That meeting was long, wasn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

        Why it works:<\/strong> The meeting is finished, both people shared the effort, and the polite form fits a workplace situation.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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        Situation:<\/strong> Two friends finish club practice.<\/p>\n

        Japanese:<\/strong> \u4eca\u65e5\u306e\u7df4\u7fd2\u304d\u3064\u304b\u3063\u305f\u306d\u3002\u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3002<\/p>\n

        English:<\/strong> Practice was tough today. Nice work.<\/p>\n

        Why it works:<\/strong> The speakers are close, and the phrase naturally acknowledges shared effort.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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        Risky situation:<\/strong> A learner says \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8<\/strong> to a customer after the customer buys something.<\/p>\n

        Why it may sound risky:<\/strong> The customer is not usually treated as an in-group coworker or teammate. In this situation, \u3042\u308a\u304c\u3068\u3046\u3054\u3056\u3044\u307e\u3059<\/strong> or \u3042\u308a\u304c\u3068\u3046\u3054\u3056\u3044\u307e\u3057\u305f<\/strong> is much safer.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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        Hear the politeness difference<\/h2>\n
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        Text:<\/strong> \u4eca\u65e5\u3082\u4e00\u65e5\u3088\u304f\u9811\u5f35\u3063\u305f\u306d\u3001\u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3002<\/p>\n

        English:<\/strong> You worked hard all day today, good job.<\/p>\n

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        Text:<\/strong> \u9045\u304f\u307e\u3067\u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3001\u7121\u7406\u3057\u306a\u3044\u3067\u306d\u3002<\/p>\n

        English:<\/strong> Thanks for working so late, don't overdo it.<\/p>\n

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        Do not turn it into an automatic greeting<\/h2>\n

        Do not use it as a universal translation of \u201cgood job,\u201d \u201chello,\u201d or \u201cthank you.\u201d<\/strong> The safest choice depends on effort, relationship, timing, and whether the listener is inside or outside your group.<\/p>\n

        When talking to customers or clients, a clear thank-you is often safer than \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3059<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

        When thanks is clearer than \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8<\/h2>\n
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        • \u3042\u308a\u304c\u3068\u3046\u3054\u3056\u3044\u307e\u3059:<\/strong> Use this when you simply want to say \u201cthank you.\u201d<\/li>\n
        • \u3042\u308a\u304c\u3068\u3046\u3054\u3056\u3044\u307e\u3057\u305f:<\/strong> Use this after someone helped you or after a service is completed.<\/li>\n
        • \u304a\u4e16\u8a71\u306b\u306a\u3063\u3066\u304a\u308a\u307e\u3059:<\/strong> Use this in business emails or formal communication with people outside your company.<\/li>\n
        • \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3059:<\/strong> Use this politely with coworkers or people in the same group.<\/li>\n
        • \u304a\u75b2\u308c\u69d8\u3067\u3057\u305f:<\/strong> Use this after a meeting, event, shift, class, practice, or task has ended.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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